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The Backward Day sounds adorable:
For some reason, young children get an absurd kick out of doing things backward, or spelling words backward, or otherwise behaving contrariwise for comic effect. This can be charming, but it can pretty quickly get tedious, too, as any parent will attest who has ever tried to get a straight answer out of a bunch of gleeful children chanting, "It's opposite day! It's opposite day!' " Ruth Krauss's 1950 picture book, "The Backward Day" -- just revived in elegant hardback as part of the New York Review's Children's Collection -- speaks directly to this anarchic impulse. In the brief tale, a little boy wakes one morning and decides that it is "backward day." So he gets up and puts on his coat, then his clothes -- with his underwear on the outside. He puts on his shoes, and over them his socks. "Then he turned his head backward as far as he could, to see over his shoulder, and he walked backward out of the room and backward down the stairs."Come to think of it ... this description, of children's affection for doing things backwards, fits perfectly with what Temple and I are saying about the nature of play in our book about animal welfare ....
So I guess that means I have to buy this book.
I have to buy this book because it's a business expense!
I've just ordered The Bear and the People from Amazon Marketplace. I have no idea whether C. will like it, but how many children's books about God come across my path? None.
"Well, there was a man once, and he had a bear . . ." begins this story about a life long friendship between man and beast. The Bearman and the bear understand each other. Together they travel all over the country, "a part of the highway like the knotty old apple trees and whitehorn bushes," as they go from village to village, where they play music and juggle and dance and the children are always happy to see them. At night they sleep in the open, and before they do the Bearman tells a story and plays a beautiful melody on his horn for the bear and for God, a melody so beautiful that all the animals in the forest raise their heads and the leaves themselves stop rustling and listen.And I'm seriously contemplating hitting the Two-Day 1-Click -- Free button for The Lost Island, The Little Bookroom, and The Island of the Horses. Here's NYRB's description of the author, Ellis Dillon:
And yet the Bearman and the bear have enemies: the jealous members of the Duda family, who are thieves and tricksters; and even more than that, the dogs. And when the Bearman dies, the bear must retreat into the wilderness for safety—until, after many adventures, he meets a new friend: a boy.
The Bear and the People is a lovely parable of friendship and courage and reverence for the natural world. It is a tale that is as exciting as it is touching and profound, and it will delight children and parents alike.
EilĂs Dillon (1920-1994) wrote more than thirty books for young people, as well as fiction for adults, including the best-selling historical novel Across the Bitter Sea, about the struggle for Irish independence in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries. With few exceptions, her young people's books are set in the west of Ireland, in small communities struggling to make a living on the islands and along the Atlantic coast. As the critic Declan Kiberd wrote in Dillon's obituary: “What Laura Ingalls Wilder did for children's literature in the US, she achieved in Ireland, imparting a sure historical sense in books such as The Singing Cave. That interest in history was a natural expression of her curiosity of mind, and of her family inheritance.I better knock off here and go do some math.
Which reminds me.
The book all of us parents of middle schoolers really need is How to Think Like a Behavior Analyst, by Jon Bailey. What an enormous help. Somehow I had managed to forget the most basic principles of behavior analysis, up to and including "Grandma's Rule," aka the Premack Principle.
I've put Christopher & me both on the Premack Principle and it is working.
Of course, keeping myself (and everyone else) on a Premack Principle regimen is the question.
8 comments:
"The Backward Day" does sound adorable. I’m tempted to order it, but maybe I should check the library first.
Yesterday, I had four 10-year old girls in the back of our minivan and, as usual, I had a greet time eavesdropping on their conversations. They played what they call the “opposites” game for awhile. Everything they said was the opposite of what they meant. “Oh, I so hate chocolate ice cream! Your outfit is so ugly!”
Okay, I may be crazy, but I’m seriously thinking of getting “How to Think Like a Behavior Analyst” for my very bright 15-year old to read.
Here’s my thinking. If he finds it interesting, he’ll probably read it in one day. Then, if he sees the wisdom of putting these principles into action, he may start using them in his interactions with me. I will go along with anything that I can tolerate. This will reinforce the benefits, and make him think about how he can use these ideas for his behavior and in working with others. Although he is very bright, he is sometimes off base in understanding why people act the way they do.
I don’t know, maybe this is a dangerous idea. But, I definitely need to read this book.
By the way, Amazon Prime membership (with “free” two-day shipping on most products) has really changed the way I shop online. Besides books, I have purchased dishwasher detergent, cereal, electronics, toys, sports equipment and a kitchen faucet (but not the kitchen sink . . . yet, lol!) from Amazon using the two-day shipping feature. It’s great.
They played what they call the “opposites” game for awhile. Everything they said was the opposite of what they meant. “Oh, I so hate chocolate ice cream! Your outfit is so ugly!”
I absolutely think this is "brain training"! (I'm basing this on a theory of rough and tumble play in animals...)
Animals, when they play, ALWAYS do role reversal.
Role reversal is a complete opposite - from dominant to submissive to back again.
I love that 2-day feature!
Just wish they had blue tortillas...
I would absolutely give the book to your 15-year old.
My neighbor is going to try to have her turning-15 year old son to read it; she's going to use it for herself.
I'm using it for me, too.
The Premack principle is what all of us afterschoolers need (will write more about that AFTER I do "the hard thing" on my "response hierarchy.")
I hadn't thought of the book as a means of understanding why other people do the things they do.
That's interesting.
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