kitchen table math, the sequel: time with children

Monday, July 12, 2010

time with children

Don't ask me how it happened, but recently, in my travels, I came across the Bureau of Labor Statistics' American Time Use Survey. To analyze American Time Use, the Bureau uses an Activity Lexicon (pdf file), a 39-page list of things people do. 

Under sleeping, for example, the Bureau includes the following options:

sleeping
waking up
falling asleep
dreaming
dozing off
cat napping
napping
getting some shut-eye
getting up
dozing

Not sleeping is also a possibility:

insomnia
lying awake
tossing and turning
counting sheep

Two and a half pages are devoted to subcategory 01: Caring For and Helping HH Children.* Reading the list gave me a happy feeling:

01 Physical care for hh children
02 Reading to / with hh children
03 Playing with hh children, not sports
04 Arts and crafts with hh children
05 Playing sports with hh children
06 Talking with/listening to hh children

And so on. Time with children.

Subcategory 02 -- Activities Related to HH Children's Education -- brought me up short:

01 Homework (hh children)
helping hh child with homework
signing hh child's homework log
reviewing hh child's homework
checking hh child's homework for completion
helping hh child with a school project
picking up hh child's books/assignments
quizzing hh child before a test

and:

02 Meetings and school conferences (hh children)
observing hh child's class
meeting with guidance counselor of hh child
attending hh child's parent-teacher conference
meeting with principal of hh child
attending hh child's back-to-school night
talking to / with hh child's tutor
meeting w/school psychologist of hh child
meeting with hh child's tutor
talking with teachers of hh child
attending hh child's school open house
attending a PTA meeting
meeting w/school speech pathologist of hh child

and:

04 Waiting associated with hh children's education
waiting to meet with hh child's teacher

And that's it, the entire list apart from a one-line subcategory dedicated to home schooling of HH children. Six categories for helping with HH child's homework, 2 categories for dealing with HH child's tutor, another 4 categories for spending time on HH child's other school-related challenges and traumas (meeting with principal of hh child; meeting with school psychologist of hh child; meeting w/school speech pathologist of hh child...) Plus an entire category consecrated to time spent waiting to meet with hh child's teacher. Talk about fresh hell.

Where are the good parts?

Where is the "hh children's education" equivalent of "listening to hh child sing/recite" and "hearing about hh child's day," both of which appear under the heading "Caring For and Helping HH Children"?

Where is subcategory 05: discussing school's program to accelerate hh child's learning with school personnel?

Or subcategory 06: vetting hh child's merit aid award offers with admissions officers?

Tutors come up elsewhere in the lexicon as well. Under "Telephone calls to / from paid child or adult care providers," the Bureau lists three activities:

talking on phone to day care provider
talking on phone to a tutor
talking on phone to a babysitter

Tutors crop up again under Childcare Services:

01 Using paid childcare services
hiring a nanny or babysitter paying for lessons, instructions
paying for daycare
paying for tutorial services
checking out daycare facility
hiring a tutor
paying for summer camp
paying for after school care program
talking to / with the daycare provider
meeting with daycare providers
talking to / with the camp counselor
talking to / with babysitter

Finally - and this took me by surprise - tutors appear in Category 04, Subcategory 02: Activities Related to Nonhh Children's Education. In Category 04 we find the American people engaging in all of the aforementioned parental Activities on behalf of other people's children:**

observing nonhh child's class
meeting w/school speech pathologist of nonhh child
observing nonhh child's class
meeting with guidance counselor of nonhh child
attending non-hh child's parent-teacher conference
meeting with principal of nonhh child
attending non-hh child's back-to-school night
talking to / with nonhh child's tutor
meeting w/school psychologist of nonhh child
meeting with nonhh child's tutor
talking with teachers of nonhh child
attending nonhh child's school open house
attending PTA meeting


I wonder what Activities Related to HH Children's Education will look like in 2020?

I'd like to see a new activity on the list: visiting private, parochial, charter, and public schools to decide where to spend your child's tuition vouchers.


* HH = household

**see Anonymous for an explanation

7 comments:

Lisa said...

Ooh, I agree. WHere is the time spent with kids celebrating AP 5's, attending scholarship banquets, vetting college offers? Maybe they are sub categories on the tutor's time use sheet?

Anonymous said...

I don't live in Lake Wobegon, so when I saw "nonhh children", I automatically assumed it was referring to biological (or other) children of what used to be called a "broken home" but is now the situation in which 1/3 of American children live. The children live with one parent, usually the mother, while the other parent(s) of the children, usually the father or multiple fathers, do not have custody. In this case, the activities related to interacting with nonhh children would be when the non-custodial parent gets to see them.

You can find statistics on America's children at childstats.gov.

Catherine Johnson said...

Oh - anonymous - thank you!

I'm sure you're right.

I was flummoxed by that category...I was thinking of grandparents stepping in and performing these functions without the child actually living in their household.

Catherine Johnson said...

The whole tone of the lexicon changes when you move from taking care of children to dealing with children's education.

The closest the education list comes to a positive is attending open house and attending PTSA meetings.

To have six different categories for homework/test preparation and TWO for tutors -- you get a picture of the problems in public education right there.

And I love the category devoted to waiting to see your child's teacher.

LynnG said...

What about "searching the internet for solutions to problems you didn't have until your child went to public school"?

Catherine Johnson said...

lollllll

oh, boy

that's the truth

Cassandra said...

"What about "searching the internet for solutions to problems you didn't have until your child went to public school"?" wrote LynnG.

Ha! Indeed! The Internet provided solutions in this "hh" for the dire situation created by Balanced Literacy and Everyday Math.